green grace syndrome

Its seems that we always tend to think, if only we have what we don't have(the other side will be always green) we will be happy.we creave for that kind of life (more money...name...fame...Titles...etc. But when we reach that state where we posess what we want.Then realisation comes to our senses that prevoius stage was good now we count the good things we missed and the sacrifies we made,relations we forgo,hardship we come across to come to this stage,now only you realise how value of the persons...realtionsships... friends... finally we think is it wrothwhile? to stay in this state or better to go back to the first stage where I was having the happyness but not realising that.